Sending the first text can be a nerve wracking experience for many guys. Often spending hours of thought and deliberation trying to formulate the perfect choice of words to kick off their new text romance. After all that time and thought the results are usually something brilliant like:
“Hey what’s up?”
“Hey cutie, it was nice meeting you last night. Want to hang out tonight?”
“How is your day going?”
“What are you up to?”
“Do you remember me? – {your name}”
“Hey it’s {name} from the bar/party/club last night. What’s up?”
These types of text or typical, boring and she is likely to have received the exact same text from countless other guys who may be pursuing her. Instead of making yourself distinctive you have put yourself in the same mundane/uninteresting category as every other guy.
On top of failing to produce any positive emotional reactions in her they also destroy any of the initial attraction that you built up when she first gave you her number.
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