Let’s pretend that the girl you are interested in tells you a story about how as little girl she was obsessed with bunnies. She was always begging her mother to take her to the local petting zoo and to buy her a bunny of her own.
Every night she went to bed with her favourite stuffed animal, Pudgy Bunny. Because, of course, you have read our book or gotten expert training from The Art of Charm you made sure to get her number.
Now, when the time comes to text her you have the opportunity to draw from that story which will show that you listened and also evoke those ever important positive emotions all over again. The next step is to add a question or statement that requires more information.
By doing this you set the tone to be light-hearted not only by the way you word it but by including things such as like nicknames, role-playing, teasing, etc.
If you put it all together it would look something like this:
“Hey my little penguin princess, what kind of mischief are you causing today!?
or
“Hey my little penguin princess, I just realized which celebrity you remind me of..Crazy
crazy :)”
Though these messages may seem short and somewhat silly they are extremely effective in bringing about the positive feelings she had when initially telling you the story which renews her attraction to you.
They establish that you are different from the average guy and in turn her responses will fun & playful. Using humor & light-heated messages helps to lower her guard therefore setting the stage for a successful interaction.
By using the first example you can find out her plans for the day, use this information to keep the conversation flowing and maybe even spend some time together. Amazing hat a few lines of well worded text can accomplish, isn’t it? Now, with your new understanding of the components of a successful first text message you can easily start wring your own.
Note: Forget everything you’ve heard about 3-day or any other kind of rules about how long you should wait to make first contact.
The longer you wait, the larger the opportunity for the memory of her attraction to you to fade and larger the chance or her meeting someone else. Strike while the iron is hot.
You should be sending your first text message within hours of getting her number or at the very most the next day.
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